human r greedy

we human r greedy lots.

tend to take and possess and too quick to ask back when thing slip out of hand...

recently a friend's spouse asked to come back after this friend served a divorce notice.

the spouse walked out many yrs ago w/o even telling my friend what is wrong. Left big shit for my friend including finanical.

After years, my friend decided to serve e paper since spouse never even turn back.

We dun noe wat cause the split. but the spouse chose to run away to faraway land n not even willing to settle what was left behind is really...

anyway

the spouse actually reverted and plead to reconcile. After all these yrs?

if the spouse has always wanted and regretted for own doing, would this person made more efforts than to email n tell my friend wanna to come back?

human r jus greedy. Do not wan to lose sth that is in hand, not even rots.

tat goes to my marriage. I felt ex hubby still somehow think he possess me. So he can continue to order me to do things. Doing things for friend is ok, it is the attitude. Cant stand him jus wan me 24 hours standby and die for him.

He has packed and left quietly aft stormy days. maybe this time i m too firm le lah, tat y he noe he wont be able to command me like before.

took this pic of an empty cupboard.
human r greedy
damages are left to the weaker ones

glad my friend firmed up mind. I mean it could sound v harsh on the spouse but sometimes what step u took u can never undo do..
walk with care, friends